One woman arrives home with a pretend girlfriend. Another meets her fake fiancé’s sister. Somewhere, a Christmas tree farm is having the kind of financial year that requires both a fundraiser and a very distracting woman. December does keep us busy.

These lesbian and sapphic Christmas movies and books offer two ways into the same seasonal obsession: something to watch tonight, something to disappear into tomorrow. Start with a featured pick, then browse the fuller carousels for fake dating, old flames, festive magic and established couples building a future. The women’s relationships matter to the story; the labels tell you when a larger ensemble shares the spotlight.

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TL;DR / THE SHORT VERSION

Choose your Christmas mood

17 released films, including one short, 13 books and a bonus Thai GL Christmas miniseries. Start with Friends & Family Christmas for fake dating, Season of Love for a queer ensemble, or Kiss Her Once for Me for a longer romantic tangle.

Is it for you?

Romance leads this list. Let It Snow shares its substantial sapphic storyline with other couples; Merry & Gay centres a queer couple. Carol is a period drama, and The Holiday Club follows celebrations across a year.

Cosy is a mood, not a promise that every story is carefree. Grief, closeting, family pressure and fostering have their own notes. The upcoming US airing is separated from the released selections.

Quick watchlist: one movie, one book

Official artwork for Friends & Family Christmas

Friends & Family Christmas

MOVIE

For a Christmas movie night with fake dating, parental matchmaking and two women finding their own reasons to keep meeting.

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Cover of Kiss Her Once for Me by Alison Cochrun

Kiss Her Once for Me

BOOK

For a snowy reading weekend: a fake engagement, the wrong sibling and another chance with the woman from last Christmas Eve.

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Movies: three ways to start your Christmas watchlist

Choose a fake relationship, a whole ensemble of women in love, or an established couple facing a new family chapter. These are entry points by mood, rather than a ranking by star rating.

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Friends & Family Christmas

2023 · Christmas rom-com · Central sapphic romance · Fake dating

Dani has moved to New York to pursue photography. Amelia is a lawyer rebuilding her life after a broken engagement. Their parents would very much like both women to acquire a suitable girlfriend, preferably before the next round of Christmas plans. Pretending to date buys them a little breathing room. It also gives them rather a lot of time together.

Start here when you want the familiar holiday-romance machinery working for two women: family interference, convenient excuses to meet and a relationship that becomes harder to dismiss as an arrangement. Humberly González and Ali Liebert lead Anne Wheeler’s film. The appeal is a courtship developing through the festivities, with the fake relationship giving the women permission to notice what they actually want. Pair it with The Christmas Swap for an evening of plans that become romantically inconvenient.

Official artwork for Season of Love
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Season of Love

2019 · Christmas through New Year · Sapphic ensemble · Three central couples

Sometimes a holiday watch needs more than one couple. Season of Love follows three pairs of women through loosely connected stories between Christmas and New Year, giving the season room for different kinds of attraction and relationship trouble. The ensemble includes women finding a connection and women negotiating the demands of a relationship already in motion.

Choose this when you want a queer social world around the romance: friends, overlapping lives and several reasons for the group chat to become invested. Christin Baker’s film makes the women’s love lives its main business, rather than reserving one small corner of a larger Christmas ensemble for a sapphic subplot. Its shape suits a shared movie night especially well. Everyone can pick a couple to root for, and nobody has to agree on precisely the same romantic fantasy.

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The Christmas Baby

2025 · Christmas family romance · Established sapphic couple · Fostering / adoption

Erin and Kelly are already a couple when a newborn arrives on their doorstep with a note addressed to them. What begins as temporary care becomes a much bigger question about the family they might build. Christmas is busy enough without an unexpected baby; their careers, relationship and the foster-to-adopt process give the decision consequences beyond a particularly memorable holiday anecdote.

Choose this for a story that starts after the women have found each other. Ali Liebert and Katherine Barrell play the couple, whose shared future takes centre stage. The attraction here is domestic possibility: making room for a child, adjusting plans and working out what both partners can offer. It is a useful change of pace after several fake first dates. Expect an established relationship facing a new chapter, with parenting rather than a first kiss driving the plot.

Movie watchlist: more sapphic Christmas and holiday films

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Looking for Her

2022 · Christmas rom-com · Central sapphic romance · Fake girlfriend

Taylor’s family is finally ready to meet her girlfriend. Unfortunately, the relationship has ended. Casting a replacement seems like a practical holiday solution until the performance develops its own feelings. Choose this for pretend dating with the romance firmly in charge.

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Under the Christmas Tree

2021 · Christmas TV romance · Central sapphic romance · Opposites attract

Charlie’s search for a tree for the Maine governor’s celebration leads directly to Alma’s backyard. A seasonal assignment becomes an excuse for something more personal. Choose this when your preferred festive conflict can be traced to one exceptionally desirable Christmas tree.

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Christmas at the Ranch

2021 · Christmas rom-com · Central sapphic romance · City meets country

Haley returns to help save her family’s ranch and finds ranch hand Kate occupying more of her attention than expected. Choose this for a homecoming romance with horses, family land and a reason to reconsider the life waiting back in the city.

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  • Official film publicity poster · user-supplied Christmas poster pack; original source retained · Source
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Last ExMas

2024 · Christmas rom-com · Central sapphic romance · Second chance

Maggie and Julianne meet again in their hometown after a difficult breakup. The attraction has survived; so has everyone else’s interest in their business. Choose this for former girlfriends testing whether an old relationship deserves a new Christmas chapter.

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  • Official film publicity poster · user-supplied Christmas poster pack; original source retained · Source
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Merry & Gay

2022 · Christmas rom-com · Central queer romance · Childhood sweethearts

Broadway performer Becca comes home for Christmas and reconnects with high-school sweetheart Sam. Their mothers have opinions, naturally. Choose this for a small-town reunion in which the lovers share a past and the family is enthusiastically available to interfere.

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  • Official film poster via Rotten Tomatoes / Fandango · Source
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The Christmas Writer

2025 · Christmas romance · Central sapphic romance · Bereavement / bookshop

A novelist returns home after her mother’s death, struggling to write the Christmas romances readers expect. Meeting a bookseller and single mother opens another possibility. Choose this for an author-and-bookshop romance with grief beneath the decorations.

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Happiest Season

2020 · Christmas comedy-drama · Established sapphic couple · Closeting / family pressure

Abby arrives at Harper’s family Christmas expecting a proposal-worthy visit, then learns that Harper has kept their relationship secret. Choose this for a big cast and complicated family comedy. The concealment hurts; save it for a night when that tension is welcome.

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Official artwork for Carol

Carol

2015 · Christmas-set period drama · Central sapphic romance · Marriage / custody pressure

A Christmas department-store encounter draws Therese towards Carol in 1950s New York. Their connection unfolds under serious social and family pressure. Choose this for restrained longing and a romantic drama with winter atmosphere, when an uncomplicated festive comedy is not the mood.

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  • Official film publicity poster · user-supplied Christmas poster pack; original source retained · Source
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A New York Christmas Wedding

2020 · Christmas romantic fantasy · Central sapphic love story · Alternate life

With her wedding approaching, Jennifer receives an angelic opportunity to see the life she might have shared with her childhood best friend. Choose this for a Christmas what-if about suppressed feelings, with grief and regret woven into the romantic fantasy.

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Let It Snow

2019 · Christmas Eve teen ensemble · Substantial Dorrie / Kerry romance · Other couples share the film

A snowstorm brings several teenagers’ Christmas Eve plans together, including Dorrie’s feelings for Kerry. Choose this for a busy ensemble evening with friendship and several romances. The sapphic relationship matters, while sharing screen time with the wider group.

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City of Trees

2019 · Holiday homecoming romance · Central sapphic storyline · Unresolved feelings

A woman in her twenties returns to her hometown for the holidays after years away and encounters feelings that did not leave with her. Choose this for a more intimate homecoming story, where familiar people make moving on considerably less straightforward.

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  • Official film / Tello Films promotional artwork · Source
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A Holiday I Do

2023 · Christmas rom-com · Central sapphic romance · Single mother / wedding planner

A single mother falls for the wedding planner organising her ex-husband’s big day. Being on friendly terms with an ex has rarely created quite so much festive administration. Choose this for wedding chaos and an unexpected romance that complicates everybody’s seating plan.

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  • Official film / Tello Films promotional artwork · Source
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The Syed Family Xmas Eve Game Night

2021 · 11-minute short · Christmas Eve family gathering · Established sapphic couple

Noor brings her Puerto Rican girlfriend to her Pakistani Muslim family’s annual game night, held on Christmas Eve. Choose this when you want the meet-the-family premise in a short film: an existing couple, cultural specificity and plenty riding on an introduction.

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  • Official poster · Naureen Meyer / The Syed Family Xmas Eve Game Night · Source
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The Holiday Club

2024 · Year-round holiday romance · Central sapphic romance · Friends to lovers

Sam dislikes holidays; Bailey embraces them. A Valentine’s Day meeting begins a connection that develops across a year of celebrations. Choose this to extend the seasonal mood beyond December. It is a holiday-spanning romance, rather than a Christmas-only story.

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  • Official movie poster via Fandango · Source

Books: four festive romances to settle into

A snowy second chance, a baking competition, an awkward Christmas reunion and a Jewish-run tree farm. Four substantial reading choices, each with a central sapphic romance.

Cover of Kiss Her Once for Me by Alison Cochrun
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Kiss Her Once for Me — Alison Cochrun

2022 · Adult Christmas romance · Central sapphic romance · Fake engagement / second chance

Ellie’s memorable Christmas Eve with Jack ended badly, and the year since has hardly improved matters. An engagement of convenience to Andrew offers financial relief and an invitation to his family’s holiday cabin. The small complication is his sister: Jack, the woman Ellie has spent the year trying to get over.

Choose Alison Cochrun’s novel when you want a Christmas setup that can sustain a full weekend of romantic entanglement. The fake engagement supplies the logistics, but Ellie’s uncertainty about her future gives the attraction something more difficult to work through than a seating arrangement. Family expectations and the fear of taking another emotional risk sit alongside the snowbound premise. It is the reading pick for anyone who wants the familiar holiday question—what if I chose a different life?—answered through a second chance with a woman.

Cover of Mangos and Mistletoe by Adriana Herrera
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  • Adriana Herrera · official author cover image · Source

Mangos and Mistletoe — Adriana Herrera

2019 · Adult holiday novella · Central sapphic romance · Baking partners / forced proximity

Kiskeya arrives in Scotland determined to win a holiday baking competition and prove what she can do. Sully wants to return to the work she loves after years spent caring for her family. They are assigned to the same team, which would be convenient if they agreed on how to approach anything. Attraction is an additional distraction neither woman has scheduled into the challenge.

Choose Adriana Herrera’s novella for a shorter, food-centred holiday romance with adult heat. The women’s Dominican backgrounds and different relationships with baking give their partnership its particular stakes. This is the pick for competitive kitchens, creative friction and the question of whether two people can make a better team by giving up a little control. Save it for the evening when you want to finish a romance before the next batch of Christmas plans begins.

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Make the Season Bright — Ashley Herring Blake

2024 · Adult Christmas romance · Central sapphic romance · Ex-fiancées / forced proximity

Charlotte has built a life in New York since Brighton left her at the altar five years earlier. Spending Christmas in Colorado with her quartet should provide a change of scene and time to practise. Then Brighton turns up in the same house. Their hosts have also arranged festive dating activities, because apparently an unresolved broken engagement needed a timetable.

Choose Ashley Herring Blake’s novel for a second-chance romance with a substantial history to untangle. Music connects the women as well as marking the lives they have tried to build apart. Shared Christmas plans make avoiding one another difficult, but proximity cannot do all the work of repairing trust. This is the longer, more emotionally loaded companion to a cheerful hometown-reunion film: an invitation to revisit the person you wanted, and examine what went wrong when you had her.

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Season of Love — Helena Greer

2022 · Adult holiday romance · Central sapphic romance · Jewish leads / tree farm / grief

Miriam returns after her great-aunt Cass’s death to discover that she has inherited a share of Carrigan’s, the family’s Jewish-run Christmas tree farm. Leaving quickly becomes less practical when the business needs saving. So does keeping her distance from Noelle, its guarded manager, who has little reason to welcome another disruption.

Choose Helena Greer’s novel for a holiday romance that makes room for Jewish identity, chosen family and the complicated work of coming home. The Christmas business supplies the setting; grief and difficult family history shape what the women bring to it. Attraction must develop alongside trust and a practical effort to keep the place alive. It suits readers who want tenderness with emotional weight, and a festive world that can hold more than one tradition. Despite the shared title, this is a separate story from the film above.

Book watchlist: more sapphic Christmas romances

Cover of It’s a Fabulous Life by Kelly Farmer

It’s a Fabulous Life — Kelly Farmer

2023 · Adult Christmas romance · Central sapphic romance · Second chance / festive magic

Bailey wants a holiday away from the town that keeps needing her. A reunion with childhood crush Maria and an encounter with drag queen Clara Angel complicate that wish. Choose Kelly Farmer’s romance for a queer reworking of a familiar Christmas what-if.

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Cover of The Christmas Catch by Clare Lydon

The Christmas Catch — Clare Lydon

2022 · Adult Christmas romance · Central sapphic romance · Childhood friends / snowy journey

Morgan and Ali need to reach Devon from Glasgow for Christmas. Transport failures and snow provide a spectacularly inconvenient setting for feelings carried since childhood. Choose this for a festive road-trip romance in which getting home and admitting what you want compete for attention.

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  • Cover supplied on Kobo by Custard Books · Source
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In the Event of Love — Courtney Kae

2022 · Adult holiday romance · Central sapphic romance · Homecoming / second chance · Fern Falls book 1

Event planner Morgan returns to Fern Falls after a professional disaster and reconnects with Rachel, whose family tree farm needs help. Choose this for a community fundraiser, hometown history and a reunion that offers more than a temporary escape from a bad year.

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  • Cover image supplied by Kobo · Source
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Written in the Stars — Alexandria Bellefleur

2020 · Adult holiday-season rom-com · Central sapphic romance · Fake dating / opposites attract

A disastrous blind date becomes a fake relationship when Darcy and Elle decide to manage other people’s expectations together. Choose this for an orderly actuary, a romantic astrologer and mutual misjudgements. Its holiday-season setting is broader than a Christmas-only story.

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Ghosted Christmas Past — Bryce Oakley

2022 · Adult Christmas romance · Central sapphic romance · Second chance / forced proximity

Nanny Merritt and chef Dylan reconnect at the mountain holiday house where they first became involved—before Dylan disappeared from Merritt’s life. Now they have to share close quarters. Choose this when you want Christmas romance with an explanation still very much owed.

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Christmas Tree Farm — Rachel Spangler

2026 · Adult Christmas romance · Central sapphic romance · Grumpy / sunshine · Released November 1

After losing her marketing job and sliding off a snowy road, Marlee finds help from tree-farm owner Wynn. A business arrangement puts them in one another’s orbit. Choose this for practical rescue plans, a struggling festive business and attraction with a sales target attached.

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Cover of Crashing into Christmas by Mara Lovelle

Crashing into Christmas — Mara Lovelle

2026 · Adult Christmas novella · Central sapphic romance · Forced proximity / grief · Released November 4

An exhausted emergency-room doctor accidentally hits Elena during a New York snowstorm, then offers shelter when the weather leaves her stranded. Choose this for a short, intimate romance about care and connection, with grief making the cosy setting more emotionally complicated.

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The Christmas Swap — Talia Samuels

2023 · Adult Christmas rom-com · Central sapphic romance · Fake boyfriend’s sister

Margot agrees to pose as Ben’s girlfriend for a countryside Christmas. His sister Ellie suspects the arrangement and becomes a much more interesting distraction. Choose this for a manor-house holiday where investigating the fake relationship creates an opportunity for a real one.

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Cover of Make You Mine This Christmas by Lizzie Huxley-Jones

Make You Mine This Christmas — Lizzie Huxley-Jones

2022 · Adult Christmas rom-com · Central sapphic romance · Fake boyfriend’s sister

Haf follows an impulsive Christmas-party kiss into a pretend relationship with Christopher, then meets his magnetic sister Kit. Choose this for an English countryside Christmas and a fake-dating plan with an obvious design flaw: the wrong sibling is becoming irresistible.

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Bonus Thai GL: a short Christmas watch

Anti Christmas Club holiday-special poster
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Anti Christmas Club

2023 · Thailand · Christmas GL miniseries · Three short episodes · H’our Channel

For a short Thai GL detour, H’our Channel’s Christmas miniseries offers a festive alternative to a full-length film. Three short episodes make it an easy change of pace between the movie and reading picks. Open the studio’s playlist for the episodes and current subtitle options.

Coming next: a US Christmas premiere

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A Firefighter’s Christmas Calendar

US Lifetime premiere · Sunday, November 29, 2026 · 8 p.m. ET / 7 p.m. CT · Streaming the following day

Dani Ramos is recruited to revive her fire station’s holiday toy drive. Photographer Sasha brings a calendar idea that could rescue the fundraiser—and a romantic possibility that complicates both women’s plans. Holly Deveaux and Kyana Teresa lead the film. Its original distributor lists it as a 2025 production; this date marks Lifetime’s upcoming US premiere.

One mood, two ways to explore it

For fake dating, watch Friends & Family Christmas or Looking for Her, then read The Christmas Swap. For second chances, pair Last ExMas with Make the Season Bright. If your ideal seasonal emergency involves a struggling business, try Christmas at the Ranch, In the Event of Love or Christmas Tree Farm. The plans may be practical; the women are still going to complicate them.

For a magical change of perspective, A New York Christmas Wedding and It’s a Fabulous Life both ask what another version of a life might reveal. For an established relationship, The Christmas Baby turns towards the family the couple might build. For quieter longing and heavier emotional stakes, Carol and Season of Love by Helena Greer offer very different routes into a reflective winter evening.

Before you commit

Christmas stories do not all offer the same kind of comfort. Happiest Season includes the strain of hiding a relationship; Carol involves marriage and custody pressure. The Christmas Writer and several books make room for grief. The Christmas Baby centres fostering and adoption. These notes describe the setup without giving away the ending. Adult books and teen characters elsewhere are not a substitute for checking the individual age guidance and content information.

The Holiday Club spans several celebrations, Written in the Stars is a holiday-season romance, and City of Trees is a holiday homecoming. They are labelled accordingly. Thanksgiving films such as Lez Bomb and Friendsgiving belong to a different seasonal watchlist; a queer romance without a meaningful holiday setting does not earn a Christmas slot merely by being delightful.

Viewing buttons open official film or platform destinations. Subscription, rental, purchase and regional access vary; a listing is not confirmation of playback in every country. The Syed Family short links to its official page for the trailer and updates, not a promise of a currently free full film. Book buttons open our directory records for editions and purchase options. Selection and destination checks: November 13, 2026.

Keep exploring

For a tighter screen-only plan, our dedicated Christmas movie guide follows nine picks through their viewing options. Keep browsing by format when the festive stack is finished—or when somebody suggests one more Christmas movie.